Children's Paradise is intrinsically attractive to children. On weekends and holidays, parents also like to bring children to play. Children are fun. A day is a game, but this is a pain for parents. Sometimes there is really no time. If you want to go back early, but children are crying, what should parents do when faced with this situation?
First, before going to the playground
1. Agreed time and cost. Before you leave home, discuss with your child about spending and playing time.
2, security agreement. Children have the right to choose their favorite play items within the existing conditions, but for the sake of safety, and the children about three chapters, which dangerous items can not play;
3. Avoid arrogance and love for children. As much as possible at home, let the children know how to follow the agreement instead of doing whatever they want.
If the child accepts the agreement before the parent brings him to the playground, if he does not want to accept it, the parent has the right not to bring the child. Special attention should be given to the fact that the agreement cannot be changed. Don't go to the scene because the child's prayers change the agreement. Otherwise, the child will think that the agreement with the parents can be changed at any time because of his shamelessness or spoiled. If so, there is no point in the agreement.
Second, to the playground
4, treat calmly. The child is crying because he hasn't played or wants to play with the project. Not only does he have to pacify the baby, he also has to deal with the eyes of the people around him, and it is easy to make inappropriate mistakes for the baby under double negative emotions. Disciplining, either compromises or confrontation with children. Parents must first calm down. Do not worry about your child because you feel embarrassed and calm.
5, remind. Parents can kindly remind the contract and say: "Our agreement is?"
6, understand children, empathy. In order to comfort the child's emotions and prevent jealousy, parents can kneel down to comfort their children and say, "Baby, you can see that you have fun at the playground. When you suddenly go home, you feel very lost. You want to be in the playground. It's better to play, right?†When this sentence is spoken, the child generally feels that he is understood and begins to say what he thinks.
7, heuristic questions. "I know that the baby doesn't want to go back, but what time (or expenses) we have agreed to have arrived? What should we do?" Let the child come up with a solution. If a child with a strong sense of rules feels reluctant to go back, he will say: "Okay, then let's go back."
Third, if the child is still unwilling or crying, we can do this:
8, distract children's attention. For example, transfer to carry-on toys or snacks, so that children pause to cry. Children under the age of 3 can use the method of distraction;
9, calm space. Take the child away from the scene and find a quiet corner where the child vents his emotions. Afterwards, communicate with the child slowly. After the child feels the love of his parents, he will soon get better.
No matter how the child cries, he cannot compromise. Because compromise means that the child's crying is effective, which means that the parent is encouraging the child to cry. The next time he will still like this, or intensify.
After returning from the playground
There is no doubt that ending children’s and parents’ moods is not so good when you end up playing in the playground. When you return home, it is not the best time to sum up with your children.
10, feel good to do well. The next day or a few days, when the children and children are in good mood, sum up the performance of the playground together with the children and let the children say.
11. Be kind and firm. I'm sorry to say to the child: "I'd be happy to take you to the playground, but you didn't abide by our agreement, sorry, I can't take you next week. After next week, if you are willing to abide by the agreement, you can tell me at any time, I will Take you there." Remember to keep smiling, not blame.
Children have the right to decide their own affairs. Parents also have the right to decide what to do, respect their children, and respect themselves. Mild and firm adherence to principle, so repeated several times, the child naturally knows that the agreement with the parents is unbreakable. It will slowly make adjustments and begin to abide by the agreement. Well, if the playground is crying, it can be effectively avoided.
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